Common Premarital Problems
There are a number of issues that are essential to discuss in premarital counseling. Sometimes these are issues that couples are aware of, know they need to discuss, are stuck on, or have already been arguing about when they schedule an appointment. Just as often these issues are hidden or are just below the surface. Number the issues below from 1 to 15 in relation to importance for you as individuals and we will share and discuss your answers as a couple.
____ Differences in Race or Ethnicity
____ Finances or Financial Disclosure
____ Values
____ Goals and Lifestyle
____ Politics
____ Religion
____ Children
____ Family Planning
____ Sex
____ Intimacy
____ Premarital Affairs and Fidelity
____ Relationship Boundaries
____ Sociability
____ Readiness and Commitment
____ Communication
____ Fighting Fair and Repair After Conflict